The Mastery !!!

 So, we are back with a blog that is Control !!

What Is Control ?? That's An easy fact. Control is to set some limits to ourselves in order to get focused. It's a Bit Easy, Right ?? Actually, It's Just easy to say but in our day-to-day life, many of us fail to dominate ourselves. Even Me.  See, In these days of coronavirus pandemic. we all are at home as well learning from home. While learning online we all explore many things. That's a good thing. A man should explore to get more knowledge.

But, but while doing this we all get disturbed by something. For example, if we are watching some video on the internet about some of the study material but suddenly we switch to some else video and can't get back to study. We get attracted to it, right?? After watching one video we switch to other and so on… but after watching all things we can't get back to study. We still wish to see few more videos. Every one of us has gone through this situation. To stop after watching some videos or not watching while studying is the control that we all should learn to keep.

I'm saying from the beginning and will say further that, never be dependent on the feelings. Do think about both the pros and cons of the thing you are going to do. 

Life is the same. we all have seen our parents control their emotions while talking to us even if they have many problems and tensions in their minds, and that's the thing we all should learn from them. In life, we all go through many hard and soft situations. While going through a hard situation some people think we can't fight with things and give up. The result is suicide or depression which may cause a disturbance in the mind which adversely affects one's life.            

These days we all must learn to control our feelings. That's what will make us withstand the era. As we all are locked in our home many of us will feel depressed, many of us will feel the need to meet friends and family, many of us will think to just go out and enjoy but, we don't have any option. We should follow the guidelines to protect ourselves from this perilous disease. You know what?? mooji said that "feelings are just visitors, let them come and go."  I do believe in this fact. Feeling our just a mindset. we should control them, don't let them control you !!   When feelings start to control one's life, the person will never think for himself/herself. He or she will always get attracted to new things and never get succeed.

When You can't control what's happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what's happening. You have to train your mind to be tougher than your emotions. I promise that will take you much further. If you don't want someone else to control yourself then be firm to control your feelings/emotions !! 

- Pradnya Deshpande.