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6 - petals

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As a teen, everyone go through such situation in which we feel like everyone is against us. And nobody is listening, no one  is trying to understand. It feels like fighting an endless war against whole world in which silence is our weapon and there's - words!(the most powerful weapon on the earth). We get scolded by our elder ones. They all try to crush you in the words like - what should you have to say, What should you have to be, how to sit, how to behave in social events, you need to understand your responsibilities, need to understand what's happening around you, etc.  Feels like I grew up very suddenly. Feels like lost in a maze. Heart feels heavier than ever. Wanted to shout loudly but voice doesn't supports. Wanted to express feelings but mind doesn't supports. Wanted to act as I want to but body doesn't supports. But this is not the hardest thing we come across. After happening everything, pretending like everything is fine and 'I am happy' is very ...

The Mastery !!!

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 So, we are back with a blog that is Control !! What Is Control ?? That's An easy fact. Control is to set some limits to ourselves in order to get focused. It's a Bit Easy, Right ?? Actually, It's Just easy to say but in our day-to-day life, many of us fail to dominate ourselves. Even Me.  See, In these days of coronavirus pandemic. we all are at home as well learning from home. While learning online we all explore many things. That's a good thing. A man should explore to get more knowledge. But, but while doing this we all get disturbed by something. For example, if we are watching some video on the internet about some of the study material but suddenly we switch to some else video and can't get back to study. We get attracted to it, right?? After watching one video we switch to other and so on… but after watching all things we can't get back to study. We still wish to see few more videos. Every one of us has gone through this situation. To stop after watching ...

The Valley

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There was a girl who was enjoying her life. She used to see flowers blooming, new leaves sprouting on the tree. She was highly talented; always used to top in class. But a time came in her life when others started to be jealous of her talent, her success. They began to tease her for her appearance and many more things. Unfortunately, she started to spend more attention on herself. She began to think more about what others would say. She tried to cram herself into other's vessel of being perfect.  She stopped expressing her opinions. Now she was able to see only flowers dying and leaves drying. She lost herself, she lost who she really was. She fell into a valley of despair...... Do you know who that girl was? It's me. It's you. It's every one of us! Yes! This time comes in everyone's life. The reasons might be different. But the result is the same...falling in a valley of despair...loss of ourselves. Are you feeling it so terrifying? No problem. Do you want to preve...

Words

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Words are everything, they have the world’s energy, the  world's best power, magic, and many more . It is not that they have nothing they have everything .   Words are the best god gift to humans. Through words we can tell our feeling, we can explore ourselves. Songs which we listen are also made up of words, Movies which we watch are also in sentence or dialog but these sentences are also made up of words, even I am also talking with you all through words.    For a second just imagine there are no words or there is a no medium to talk with anyone. It would be very dangerous and also how we will express our feelings? So, words are very important   We all use words for good purposes or for sad purposes and for communicating with people, and for many more purposes, we use words. While using these words we should be very careful because the value of words in this world is uncountable...Words can do anything... As Muniba mazri said, “Words can make us, t...

Accept it!

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Just a few days before, I said to myself, "I desperately need a change!". After a few moments, I laughed and helplessly thought, "we are already facing (fighting as a matter of fact) a drastic change in our lives." That is COVID. Still, I wanted a change! How stupid, right? But it's a fact that we all need change. "Change is the only constant" - Heraclitus. Every situation, expression, thing changes with time; Even though we can't see any path. We all have to face the change. The thing is how we face it. Let me tell you my simple way to handle the change.  Consider, you are boating. First, you go upstream and then downstream. When will your efforts be less? Certainly when you go downstream! Same thing you have to do with change. Don't resist it. Simply flow with it. I just mean we should accept the change and move forward. Remember, everything in the world has two views. Same with change. We should learn to ascertain the positive side of change...

Fight for your Dreams!!

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In today's fast paced world everyone has to be successful. There is a lot of competition in today's world where everyone is trying to be successful as fast as possible. While achieving your goal there are some mistakes that happen or sometimes we fail to achieve, that time we feel bad. Sometimes we blame our destiny and we spend our time in it. Don't get exhausted in such a difficult situation, be hopeful. You know there is no one in this world who doesn't have problems everyone has problems, failures but everyone has a different way of looking at those problems or failures. For example, if you have 10 locks and 10 keys In front of you and you have to find correct key for every lock. You tried first key to first lock but that was not correct key, then you tried second key but that was also wrong. Then you tried third, fourth, fifth and sixth but unfortunately these six keys were wrong. So you stopped trying it and you give up. Now tell me, finding co...

You Don’t Find Happiness, You Create It !!

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  Happiness!! A big word in which the whole world can be measured. See, Whenever someone asks us how are you? At that time we answer I’m Good OR I’m Happy right?? Happiness Is the only thing which we can’t buy or which we can’t get from anyone. But there is one thing that can make us happy, That is soul !! See, if someone tells us a joke and at that time we keep thinking about something that was happened to us a few hours ago or a few days ago we lose the chance of becoming happy. If We get a chance to be happy we should enjoy it. There are only a few chances to be happy which we get from others. We should find happiness in small things. Such as, we can enjoy ourselves while cooking while doing study even while giving a speech. I read a blog a few days ago and there was a story in it, that I would like to share with you’ll, one day one student asked his guruji why all the problems Are just stuck with me ?? His guruji told him to bring one glass of water and a spoonful of salt. ...